This Valentine: I must receive gifts!!
It was a couple of weeks ago when I blurted out to
Bubari that I haven’t received valentine’s gift from “lovers” or “crushers” in years.
Bubari is my amazing sister sister, friend, yellow paw paw wakabout colleague and
she is one of those people that gets the gist straight away. She asks me what I
want and I said “Jewellery from Tiffany’s and White Lilies”. I take it a step
further by posting pictures of what I want on WhatsApp. Some people got the
gist some did not.
I am working late tonight and tell Bubari that we should
throw a party for those of us who don’t get asked out on Monday night. Karoke in
the conference room with fries, fish and white wine. She immediately agrees
that it is a splendid idea but shortly after says “Funke, I just want you to
know that if I get asked out, I won’t be attending the conference room hangout”
we both burst out in laughter and I think about how pathetic it must be that
just so you don’t feel alone you throw a party at the office to dance away the
pain.
Now a rebuttal here is that I have fantastic people in
my life including lovers and crushers who have gone above and beyond to make me
really happy and buy me some of the finest things in life. It just happens that
on Valentine’s Day (for the past 4 years) I haven’t gotten anything special
except the “consolation” gifts you get from your employer, colleagues or girlfriends.
This Valentine: I must receive gifts. How that is
going to happen, I don’t know yet, and if I don’t receive any, I am happy that I
dared to be vulnerable, to speak my truth, to let people know that it feels quite
shxxxy to answer a strange call on Val’s day and discover that your caller is
not a dispatch rider/delivery man bearing gifts, to let my readers know that it is completely
fine to laugh at yourself and that whether the story changes or not, you are already okay.
P.S- I smiled all through while writing this story.
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