Stop looking for closure; It doesn’t exist.
Something happened to me a while ago that I needed “closure” for. I struggled so much to get it but it never happened. Here is a story of a hurtful experience I had and the approach I took to make sense of it all. The date that did not happen. I believe most of us are familiar with the irritation you get when your flight has been delayed for hours. This was exactly how I was feeling when I entered the Abuja bound Air P eace plane months ago. As I moved towards my seat, I silently wished for a good seat partner. I was not in the best of mood and all I wanted was someone decent to sit beside me. Not a person with a toddler, not a loud person and definitely not someone old (no offense) I honestly just wanted a drama free flight. As fate will have it, a good-looking man who seemed to be in his early 30’s sat right next to me. The first thing I did was to scan this person. From his well-groomed nails to his height, skin etc. everything was the way I liked it. Verdict= He looke